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Of course it's reasonable, but the Drill Sergents in boot camp won't put up with it.


Your previous post hit the nail on the head: being asked out is a compliment and it should be alright to refuse politely.  Unfortunately so many men are afraid that if a gay man asks them out it means that they (the straight guy) is somehow effeminate or something and so he's got to beat the crap out of the gay guy to prove his manhood.


Relax, men, what if every woman you asked out felt like she had to beat you senseless if she didn't want to go out with you?  As long as hetero and homo people are polite and take "no" for an answer, then I don't see any problem.


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