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The only thing I can think of to do about this is to reduce the stigma attached to being gay.  Your son is upset because of the fear of implied "gayness", if he had been accosted in exactly the same manner by a woman he'd be alright, being hetero is ACCEPTABLE.  It isn't gay people in general doing the damage to your son, it's his own culture that has taught him that being gay is horrific, evil, bad, sinful, and disgusting (look at the stuff Siho writes).


Sorry to say that incidents like this with your son are the kind of thing that sometimes lead to men who bash gays for revenge.  Men with little self-esteem are so put-down by the enculturation that says if a man finds you attractive then you must be "gay" somehow that they have to keep proving their manhood to themselves by hurting others.  It's twaddle, gay men like men, you son is probably just that: a man, and thus attractive.  It's wrong for the guy at HD to hassle him though, just like it would be wrong for a guy at HD to hassle me (which has happened a number of times).


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