Yes, it's hard not to see them if one goes out in public or watches TV or movies. Are you saying that homosexuals force others to watch them have sex? More than heterosexuals do?
Every State in the Union had laws against homosexuals at one time, that is not just a "few bullies". Homosexuals have never had, and still do not have equality in this country, that isn't just a few bullies either.
I didn't say "most people," you misquoted me. And it took a large percentage of the American population to pass anti-gay marriage initiatives in more than half the States.
Fear, hatred, dislike, all of them are correct to some extent. So what? Gay people do not have equality and therein lies the problem.
One of the biggest indicators of fear is the oft-stated cry that gays will corrupt or recruit straight kids--that's an unfounded fear in light of the fact that sexual orientation appears to be an innate quality.
Are you arguing that the "dislike" you say people have for the idea homosexual relations is reason enough to abrogate their Constitutional rights? I have to admit that I don't like the inculcation of children with religious nonsense either, but I don't try to pass laws to prevent it. I don't like killing animals for fun, but I don't beat people up or take away their right to bear arms because of it. Why are you trying to justify the discrimination against gay people because people don't like the "idea" of it?