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If that is the only job she has prepared herself for then yes it is her fault.

That does not mean that she is not deserving of help. But that help should come first from people who would give it willingly. Those people (like parents) are also in a position to expect her to start making better choices so that she will learn to be self-supporting. Gov on the other hand must coerce people to give and when it does it enables them to become less self-supporting.