Not at all, and your reviling and antagonistic spiel is wearing me a wee bit thin. Birth control coupled with condoms used as birth control have a percentage less than 99.9%, which while I'll concede does not make it impossible, it is what we like to refer to as improbable. See the earth COULD be hit by a meteor, there's a chance. Planes face the risk of falling out of the sky every time they fly, but they usually don't and no one runs about saying it's not IF it's WHEN, as you're attempting to do with your nonsense. I find your skewing of the statistics to imply the "not if, but when" scenario quite refutable. I've done well for I guess, 12 years, without a single child, it's not irrational to assume one isn't knocking at the door since I'm following the same care with things as I have in the past. Everything we do is a risk, even breathing, if you want to play the game where 0% (or 100%) is the only "definite" then sure, you're right; statistics in this case however are in my favor and are generally accepted except by zealot nut jobs such as yourself who try to play silly games with facts.
Marriage is, sorry to trash you're ridiculous ideals here, not FOR THE CHILDREN, it's for a couple in love who wish to spend the rest of their lives together, if kids are part of that package, so be it. However to suggest that with adequate precautionary care it is STILL "careless" to have sex, is preposterous, as I made clear in my last paragraph, statistics is on my side. Your analogy is still only valid to retards on ventilators, anyone else would see it as invalid as I. No "protection" is 100%, not for sex and not for driving. I'm not ready to die by any means, but I've likely a higher chance of dying than impregnating my girlfriend, yet when I sit behind the wheel of my car, I don't sit down thinking, if I die, I'm ready to go! See I take precautions though, I buckle my seat belt, I drive the speed limit, I use my turn signals all to minimize the possibility of my death in this steel cage of kinetic energy and as with sex, it's sufficed thus far.
I say you're both wrong AND stupid.
And I'm not chest thumping either, however I'm not calling your loved ones bimbos nor am I accusing you of being abusive towards them. Both of which you stated quite plainly. I find it disrespectful and a pathetic jab with no basis, grow up.
You made no such conclusion, I won't have kids because statistics says I won't, just as I won't win the lottery even though I buy a ticket each week. I mean I COULD, but you could choke to death on some meaty gristle whilst eating a chicken thigh, but you're not going to stop eating now are you. I'm by no effort trying to make anyone fear me, I could give a ****, I do want you to know however that I'm not keen on people being insulting where it is NOT warranted, you're just lucky I'm no mod as that comment directed at me or anyone else wouldv'e been an akill.
What in the ****? lol, you really are reaching. I know because if someone I was dating became pregnant, they'd have told me. I don't just sleep with any random girl I come across, I'm not one for one night stands, and I'm to this day friends with most everyone I've ever dated. There is very MUCH a way on earth, and I'm doing it here, I have no blood on my hands....period. Not fetal and not of a child. You get wackier and wackier every thread. Did your lithium run out?