Furious George
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DISCLAIMER: This is the compilation of many of my rants on various other forums, random thoughts, and my current state of mind. If you care not to read my post, I will not address yours. If you're going to try and counter my points, please, quote all parts. Nothing irks me more than someone who trys to tell me I'm wrong, while only quoting a tenth of my whole post. I took the time to type this, so I expect you to take the time to read it. If you ask for a TL;DR, I will report you. No questions asked. One more thing--you can tell me I'm wrong, that's how life is, yadda yadda, but quite frankly, I'm tired of the 'hands-off' approach to everything. If this cycle continues, there will be serious implications. Enjoy.
Recently, with my discovery of the magnitude of Islamic Fundamentalism, and me reading up on American culture as we currently know it, I have come across quite a few questions. It's painfully obvious to me, (And I hope the rest of you) that Pop Culture is almost default in this country. More people tune-in to prime-time dramas, then they do the news. Granted, not everybody is akin to news, but it's an important part of your life. Without news, how can you accurately gauge how well your leaders are running your country? As I know television, there are 5 or 6 main news media outlets. Compare that to the other 900 I get on my digital cable package. When television first came out, it was geared primarily towards information, as was the internet. Now look at it. It's all commercialized non-sense. The internet is over 50% porn-related. Is this what we really want? It seems the self-indulgence never ends. Is this the 'American Dream' people strive for? One huge commercialized candy shop?
On my way down to the library today, I went past a popular hangout for self-proclaimed 'gangsters', all wearing essentially the samething-big-bulky, white tee-shirts. They all spoke the slang of an inner city persona, with a tilted ball cap.
What's really going on here? Various popular culture personalities have been integrated into our own personas whether we realize it or not. Many people spend their entire lives functioning like puppets who simply repeat catch phrases and one-liners from their favorite forms of entertainment. It might be giving them too much credit, but broadcast networks are now marionettes with powers that we could have never even dreamed of. In even very subtle ways they have affected the ways we look, act, and interact with each other. We are no longer each autonomous beings, developing as organic characters; many of us can simply form social lives and friendships by emulating what's on the big screen or the radio. After all, it is the easiest way to communicate and yields the most companions, much easier than being honest.
What seems to be the problem? All of these people are hollow. They buy a mainstream cd, DVD, or watch a show. They repeat these cute little catch phrases unto the point where I want to bash myself in the face. This lack of creativity and orginality presents no challenge. No matter how many times you think it's funny, cause a spontaneous eruption of laughter from your stolen catch phrase, you still are unoriginal and in my honest opinion, will not help you grow as a person.
I now feel that when I meet a person in a random gathering, I have to filter through layers of over priced name brand clothing, designer fragrances, and attitudes instilled in them by being socialized into a group that communicates based on some subculture identity. It is difficult to find a real human being within all of this mess and in many instances maybe the conditioning is so strong that there really isn't one left. The mask of popular appeal (after all that's what we want anyway) has run so deep that there is no real person left to communicate with. Our entire nervous system functions like a series of puppet strings. Everyone wants to at least appear normally socialized. But people take it to narcissistic extremes.
Can you turn on the tv at night, and not be forced to have some infomercial promising a cream that will rid you of all skin blemishes, a tool to get rid of your rolls, and a pill to make you **** golden eggs. It seems our ego as a subculture has been magnified to the point of dessication. As I stated before, authentic pesonal identity is now just a long lost thought. It seems if you don't emulate a certain clique or stereotype, you're a loser. I can recall countless times where I was denounced by various cliques at my school for my musical taste. Albeit, I have an extensive musical taste, and I get questions from scene kids all the time, asking me how I can like this band, AND this band at the same time. Ironically, this is the kid that is fighting the system, fighting for equality, and defending animals' rights!
It seems these days that not only teenagers are a victim of conforming and emulating an image, but adults and young-adults. You'd be hard pressed to find a person with a good set of morals, good judgement, and doesn't have a cable line attached to his/her head. We're so conditioned to be consumers and get our biggest piece for the lowest price and most convenience that we apply this formula to everything we do. Even something like friendship may get a list of pros and cons "If I hang out with this dude: What will other people think? Will I have any social or financial advancement?" as if the answer was as simple as just weighing these things and making a choice.
People take this conformism and identity to often narcisstic extremes, and I equate this to that of finding a "soul-mate." Soul-mates do not exist -- that's just irrational nostaligic romantic bullshit. Unfortunately this is not a thought one can express to anybody one is currently intimate with: "Honey, I like you a lot -- A LOT -- but if you never existed I'm sure I would have found someone else and probably been just as happy, and vice-versa."
This can only make me realize that people do not truly respect having freedoms and living in a Democracy. When they plaster $1 magnetic American flag stickers on their car that gets 8MPG, I can't see past the blind patriotism. When election time comes around, I see people who don't even bother looking up the agendas of the electorates. Another instance of blinding idiocy. These people absolutely sicken me, and I can only question why our country is like this. We are the strongest country in the world, economically, militarily, and more importantly, intellectually. We have one of the most technological economies known to man, yet our general population consists of idiots. If you ask me, our current 'democracy' is an Oligrachy of the educated. Only people with good people skills, lots of money, and an education are running this country, while the rest of us are too worried about working, feeding our families, and being entertained. (Entertain meaning everything basically described above)
Now, that this is off my chest, I propose a few questions;
-What causes this narcissim? Is it human error?
-How should we counter it?
-Is this the reason our leaders are so disconnected from the people, and vice versa?
Recently, with my discovery of the magnitude of Islamic Fundamentalism, and me reading up on American culture as we currently know it, I have come across quite a few questions. It's painfully obvious to me, (And I hope the rest of you) that Pop Culture is almost default in this country. More people tune-in to prime-time dramas, then they do the news. Granted, not everybody is akin to news, but it's an important part of your life. Without news, how can you accurately gauge how well your leaders are running your country? As I know television, there are 5 or 6 main news media outlets. Compare that to the other 900 I get on my digital cable package. When television first came out, it was geared primarily towards information, as was the internet. Now look at it. It's all commercialized non-sense. The internet is over 50% porn-related. Is this what we really want? It seems the self-indulgence never ends. Is this the 'American Dream' people strive for? One huge commercialized candy shop?
On my way down to the library today, I went past a popular hangout for self-proclaimed 'gangsters', all wearing essentially the samething-big-bulky, white tee-shirts. They all spoke the slang of an inner city persona, with a tilted ball cap.
What's really going on here? Various popular culture personalities have been integrated into our own personas whether we realize it or not. Many people spend their entire lives functioning like puppets who simply repeat catch phrases and one-liners from their favorite forms of entertainment. It might be giving them too much credit, but broadcast networks are now marionettes with powers that we could have never even dreamed of. In even very subtle ways they have affected the ways we look, act, and interact with each other. We are no longer each autonomous beings, developing as organic characters; many of us can simply form social lives and friendships by emulating what's on the big screen or the radio. After all, it is the easiest way to communicate and yields the most companions, much easier than being honest.
What seems to be the problem? All of these people are hollow. They buy a mainstream cd, DVD, or watch a show. They repeat these cute little catch phrases unto the point where I want to bash myself in the face. This lack of creativity and orginality presents no challenge. No matter how many times you think it's funny, cause a spontaneous eruption of laughter from your stolen catch phrase, you still are unoriginal and in my honest opinion, will not help you grow as a person.
I now feel that when I meet a person in a random gathering, I have to filter through layers of over priced name brand clothing, designer fragrances, and attitudes instilled in them by being socialized into a group that communicates based on some subculture identity. It is difficult to find a real human being within all of this mess and in many instances maybe the conditioning is so strong that there really isn't one left. The mask of popular appeal (after all that's what we want anyway) has run so deep that there is no real person left to communicate with. Our entire nervous system functions like a series of puppet strings. Everyone wants to at least appear normally socialized. But people take it to narcissistic extremes.
Can you turn on the tv at night, and not be forced to have some infomercial promising a cream that will rid you of all skin blemishes, a tool to get rid of your rolls, and a pill to make you **** golden eggs. It seems our ego as a subculture has been magnified to the point of dessication. As I stated before, authentic pesonal identity is now just a long lost thought. It seems if you don't emulate a certain clique or stereotype, you're a loser. I can recall countless times where I was denounced by various cliques at my school for my musical taste. Albeit, I have an extensive musical taste, and I get questions from scene kids all the time, asking me how I can like this band, AND this band at the same time. Ironically, this is the kid that is fighting the system, fighting for equality, and defending animals' rights!
It seems these days that not only teenagers are a victim of conforming and emulating an image, but adults and young-adults. You'd be hard pressed to find a person with a good set of morals, good judgement, and doesn't have a cable line attached to his/her head. We're so conditioned to be consumers and get our biggest piece for the lowest price and most convenience that we apply this formula to everything we do. Even something like friendship may get a list of pros and cons "If I hang out with this dude: What will other people think? Will I have any social or financial advancement?" as if the answer was as simple as just weighing these things and making a choice.
People take this conformism and identity to often narcisstic extremes, and I equate this to that of finding a "soul-mate." Soul-mates do not exist -- that's just irrational nostaligic romantic bullshit. Unfortunately this is not a thought one can express to anybody one is currently intimate with: "Honey, I like you a lot -- A LOT -- but if you never existed I'm sure I would have found someone else and probably been just as happy, and vice-versa."
This can only make me realize that people do not truly respect having freedoms and living in a Democracy. When they plaster $1 magnetic American flag stickers on their car that gets 8MPG, I can't see past the blind patriotism. When election time comes around, I see people who don't even bother looking up the agendas of the electorates. Another instance of blinding idiocy. These people absolutely sicken me, and I can only question why our country is like this. We are the strongest country in the world, economically, militarily, and more importantly, intellectually. We have one of the most technological economies known to man, yet our general population consists of idiots. If you ask me, our current 'democracy' is an Oligrachy of the educated. Only people with good people skills, lots of money, and an education are running this country, while the rest of us are too worried about working, feeding our families, and being entertained. (Entertain meaning everything basically described above)
Now, that this is off my chest, I propose a few questions;
-What causes this narcissim? Is it human error?
-How should we counter it?
-Is this the reason our leaders are so disconnected from the people, and vice versa?